Be Drunk

You have to be always drunk. That's all there is to it—it's the only way. So as not to feel the horrible burden of time that breaks your back and bends you to the earth, you have to be continually drunk.

But on what? Wine, poetry or virtue, as you wish. But be drunk.

And if sometimes, on the steps of a palace or the green grass of a ditch, in the mournful solitude of your room, you wake again, drunkenness already diminishing or gone, ask the wind, the wave, the star, the bird, the clock, everything that is flying, everything that is groaning, everything that is rolling, everything that is singing, everything that is speaking. . .ask what time it is and wind, wave, star, bird, clock will answer you: "It is time to be drunk! So as not to be the martyred slaves of time, be drunk, be continually drunk! On wine, on poetry or on virtue as you wish."

Not Being Sad about Being Sad

Depending on who you ask and how they classify the psalms, anywhere from a third to half of the book of Psalms consists of lament.  It is the most common type of psalm that you can find.

Maybe you think that’s depressing; you’d rather focus on the psalms of praise and thanksgiving, even if they are fewer in number.  I like those psalms, too, but the sheer volume of lament says something very important to me: It’s okay to be sad.  God does not expect me to paste on a plastic happy face before I pray or gather with others to worship.

Had a BBM chat with a friend this evening and she said she's just unnecessarily sad . I told her. "Whn u r sad unnecessarily, do more of wat makes u happy....... And be thankful dat u r alive, that's a reason enuf not to be sad".
Our loving God embraces us in His open arms whether we’re having a fabulous day or we are grieving.  We don’t have to try hiding anything, putting on a more “acceptable” exterior.  God welcomes our sadness and lament. 

Not Just The Neat Outlook

I wanted to put this on my pm but I didn't want to bug my friends with myriad of PMs. So I was like maybe I should put it into one and let you know how I feel.

When people dress up, swag up and 'man' up designers, I'm always like "waoh he/she is cute" or "I like his/her footwear". But after the first look, I go with a thought like though he/she is fine on the outside but is s/he truly fine on the inside. The neat /cute outlook of a beautiful lady is not the definition of her neatness or cuteness. When a guy drops his pant below the waist, all I say in my mind is hope he's wearing a neat boxers.

I've seen neat girls, that every guy wanna be with but once u open their shirts, tuck your finger into cannanland, you won't just like what you are doing. A girl or guy should know that after the outlook, opposite sex will want to know what the inside is like.

I'm not a guy with many designer clothes, infact maybe with no designer shirt but I've got the inside so clean. I get new boxers in interval of 3weeks.... Atleast as a guy you should have not less than 10 boxers.

A girl shouldn't just fluck around with just 2 bras , atleast you shld have 5, and atleast a dozen panties. Because even if you wear a vera wang gown, after that a guy will love to see the bra and panties.

As a guy you should wear clean underwear, because when your underwear is neat, that shii get girls nut. I flunt my boxers and my TRY and LUX underwear because that's just how to prove that I'm neat, not the outlook.

And to be more serious, we should learn how to shave. Some girls want HEAD but hates shaving, please can you eat a fowl with feathers on it?? It is really disgusting. Shave your pubic hair and armpit .

Girls! Forget the outlook of some of these guys, start checking their underwear and their pubic hair.

Not a lenghthy something, but that's all I got. Share your views by commenting.

Out Of A Pit

It is not strange to anyone that so many times we fall, but not everytime do we rise up and dust off the dirt on our body and move on.

In the past 2 months, I have seen and learnt that no matter how deep the pit you fall into is, there are some good people who are ready or willing to save you from dying in the pit. So they render all necessary help to get you out of the mess and breakdown.

Unlike Danielle Steele, this is no fiction. The last 8 weeks of my life showed me that even those who you love can turn their back on you and it also gave me a justification to why loners trust no one.

Like fugitives, I have ran from my mistakes, because I don't want to sleep on the mat of shame. I ran because I didn't want to face the shame and the scornful pity of haters. Again like a fugitive, I slept only where I see that I could lay my head on. I didn't sleep on beds or rugs, I slept on sand, benches, cemented ground and on cold carpet. But I knew that these were building a tough me for another tougher circumstance.
In my case, I sought refuge from 'my loved ones' but only few could be called that. The person you so believe in might have no strength to rescue you in trying times. I have been broke, I have been "molested", I have been betrayed but here I stand today to put this post here, just to show that though I wallow and cry in my pit of shame but good people gave me ladder to get out of it.
Deaconess Falade once said, "Gbotemi, you do not know who loves you, you can only boast of whom you love." It is a pity that I had my finger between my teeth before deciphering the knowledge within the phrase.
Some people gave their everything to make me happy. I remember Tosin, Segun, Rotimi taking me out to drink, just to forget the misery, wonderful people! Whenever I think about all these stuffs, I say to myself, Kunle you are a special being and I am destined for greater things, so whoever rejects me now, turned down an offer to enjoy from my greatness.
I don't want to mention names in this post because I'm no fuji musician. But to all those who stayed, thank you. For those who left, God bless you for leaving, you just gave space for other wonderful people to come in.
Even in this pit, I got my ex-best friend back and also I had the chance to meet the person who has always wanted me.
And once again my spirit is lifted and I have a happy face plus a gladdened heart.

jealousy In a Relationship: Good or Bad?

this is just a quick one, jealousy in a Relationship . Good or Bad? Tell me reasons for your pick. Oya drop comments.