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Thursday 16 August 2012

Life is an Adventure

We don't need to preach to ea
ch other about life because it unfolds to us differently. But like I always say, words of encouragement will be enough to lift or turn around lives that are already giving up. I have different quotes for u to read but quotes without any clue of what's all about is useless. Life is like a car traveling at night, the driver can only see the next 200feet through the car's pointer and the driver hopes to see next 200feet, maybe there's a ditch or not he'll only know when he gets there. So that's exactly how our life is, we don't know what tomorrow holds but we still hope it's going to be a better day. So life like an adventure we don't know what the next obstacle is. But we should not worry abouttoday instead live today in a hope for better tomorrow. There's no life without it's own trial. What we should learn to do more, is making ourselves happy. Life is about harmony of opposites. Sometimes everything will be good, at times bad. Sometimes fun, at times boring and so more. Life is a blend of opposites but in living In these opposites we should learn to make ourselves happy and know that there would be light at the end of the tunnel. We can only witness the better tomorrow only if we don't kill ourselves in the depression of today. Let our mind always have the word HOPE int it.

Wednesday 1 August 2012

Be Humble!

"It's hard to be humble," says an old country song, when you're perfect in every way.Very few people, of course, actually think they're perfect in every way, but it can still be pretty hard to be humble, especially when you live in a society that encourages competition and individuality. Even in such a culture, however, humility is an important virtue. Learning to be humble is of paramount importance in most religions and spiritual traditions, and humility can also help you develop as a person and enjoy richer relationships with others.Even in the bible, it is believed God hates pride and loves humility, he lift up the humble and bring down the pride, so my brothers and sisters if you want God to be pleased with whatever you do, be humble.Though it is believed that humility is one of the hardest virtue to achieve but notwithstanding you can always achieve it by relating with humble ones or people of low status.SO HELP YOU LORD.

How to Make Your Relationships Work : 7 Tips

Many of us have our own definition of relationship. Though there's no unique definition for it, it all depends on the kind of relationship you are in. But still let me just give us 7 tips on how to make a relationship work. Trust your partner A lack of trust will doom any and every relationship. Be on the lookout for controlling behavior, and learn to stop it before it starts. If something is bothering you, you need to be able to talk to your lover about it rather than let it eat away at you. Just don’t assume the worst every time you aren’t certain what is going on, and you’ll find that it probably was never the case anyway. Communicate! We’ve all heard this a million times from every piece of dating advice ever given, but the reason it’s still said so often is because it doesn’t always sink in. The crucial role that open communication plays in a relationship cannot possibly be overstated. Always be honest, even if the implications are painful. Your life will ultimately be happier because of it. Be proactive If your relationship has issues, the last thing you want to do is sit around and wait for somebody else to solve them. If you feel strongly that it is mostly your partner’s fault, then that is a problem in and of itself. If you want your partner to express affection to you, go and express affection to them first. The power is always in your hands to do something meaningful. Love yourself The love your boyfriend or girlfriend gives you will never be a substitute for your own self-esteem. Love yourself, and others will find it easy to love you, too. Don’t undermine yourself or be overly critical. Being relaxed and fun will make both you and your partner the happiest you can be.   Listen always Be open to what your partner says to you, even if it’s critical and even if you disagree initially. Try to gain flexibility and perspective in your life. There’s a difference between a knee-jerk response and a well-thought-out position, and your relationships will improve the more open you are! Think like a couple If you and your significant other really want to spend the rest of your lives together, you need to be an effective team. Don’t be selfish, but also don’t make yourself miserable so that your lover will be happy. The two of you are in this together! Learn to think in ways that benefit you as a couple, rather than just one of you individu
Give them space If your boyfriend or girlfriend likes to do something that you don’t enjoy, just spend that time away from them working on your own hobby. Smothering your partner with your presence will only drive them further away from you. Even though you’re in love, you can lead separate, adult lives.