Masturbation and what you should know

Read on a friend's blog about a year ago about how good, healthy, fun-filled and psychological masturbation is. She writes erotic stuffs on her blog but they are good to educate people.
I had a heated argument with a friend before sleeping yesterday and we argued about masturbation. And I'm gonna state why after almost a year I agree with blaq (my friend with the erotic blog) that masturbation is oh ok.

With my sexual years of service I've seen people give names to masturbation just because they don't want the next person to decipher. During high school it was Spanking the monkey, choking the chicken during my Pre-degree days, teasing the trouser snake during undergraduate days, jacking off it is these days. But call it whatever you want, I'm sure we all did once, twice if not everyday. Because reliable studies consistently find that 95% of men and over 30% of women masturbate on a regular basis.

Gurls masturbate too. So I'm not just talking about guys. Atleast I know of some gurls using banana during high school and we all should be familiar with Dildo. But all these aside, is masturbating wrong??

Masturbation, defined by Anne Hooper, famous British sexologist (a sexologist is a scientist who studies sexual behavior – what a job, huh?), as “the stimulation of the genital organs to achieve sexual pleasure, most commonly with the hands and fingers.” She adds that masturbation is a “valuable method for sexual exploration and as a release for sexual frustrations.” If this can release you from sexual frustration and atleast save you from anyone disgracing you because of your urge for sex then this is oh ok enough.

Many psychologists say that masturbation is normal, and should be encouraged, if only for the possibility that they would engage in this behavior instead of actually having premarital sex with a partner and getting into another bunch of problems. This is true?? Yes. Wanking can reduce rate of premarital sex , rate of unwanted pregnancy and rate of rape. And it seems wanking is a solution to all this degrading factors of the society, so it's oh ok by me. And we should not forget that masturbation is having sex with yourself, so this can reduce contacting STDs.

Please I want you all to note that I'm saying masturbation is oh ok, I'm not saying it's good or bad. This is because the term 'good' is relative. So it's up to individuals to decide whether it is good or bad. But so many of us who cast those who masturbate also masturbates. If by any chance you do phone sex, you touch yourself (examining your boobs in some 'lustful' ways) then you do too.

And in the religion sense, I can say about christianity don't really know about other religions.
The Bible never explicitly mention masturbation or state whether or not masturbation is a sin. The Scripture most frequently pointed to in regards to masturbation is the story of Onan in Genesis 38:9-10. Some interpret this passage as saying that “spilling your seed” on the ground is a sin. However, that is not precisely what the passage is saying. God condemned Onan not for “spilling his seed” but because Onan refused to fulfill his duty to provide an heir for his brother. The passage is not about masturbation, but rather about fulfilling a family duty. A second passage sometimes used as evidence for masturbation’s being a sin is Matthew 5:27-30. Jesus speaks against having lustful thoughts and then says, “If your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away.” While there are parallels between this passage and masturbation, it is unlikely that masturbation was what Jesus was alluding to. So don't judge anyone based on religion, that's between him/her and God.

And for pleasure purpose, I agree with blaq that you are the only person who can f**k yourself better. And to even love (have good sex with) other people, you have to love yourself better(f**k yourself better). You can click on the link here to chek my friend's view..... http://www.blaqcoffeetots.blogspot.com/2012/07/touching-yourself.html?m=1 .

I just wanna say never castigate people or cast someone because they masturbate. By judging them you are already making yourself a sinner because the scripture's direction is that we should not judge. Let the issue of masturbation be left between the doer and God. And also we should learn to quit pretense because most people who criticize also masturbate but to shameful to agree or say they do.